The Bridge
Relations and Personalities are something which is hard to manage in my view. Most relations are spoilt due to lack of understanding ,lack of communication but a heightened increase in one's ego.

Why do we do this to ourselves? It only brings differences but we hardly try to bridge the the distance. I had tried myself once and went a bit far forgetting myself and my family just for the sake of the whole joint family together. This is by no means a boastfull addmission but rather a painfull one ,which ultimately had no positive outcome. Some things are never meant to be, is what I felt at the end of the day.

I have learnt a lot through this experience.Though I think we should never regret that your efforts were wasted because making an effort is more important than to sit and brood.

I wonder how blood relations also can be affected by the lack of communication and how and why people do not try to retrieve them. They unneccessarily increase the burden on their hearts. Do they never think that life is so -so short and will vanish like a bubble???? There will be hardly anytime to say goodbye's leave alone to pour their heartfelt feelings.

Of course, life moves on----- and maybe nobody needs the hands of friendship you have stretched, the bridge you have built is there ,but people want to take the boat to cross the river so be it,, One day they will definetly realise that the boat might sink in between and it would have been better for them to cross the river by The Bridge.